cmd/k8s-operator: add matching family addresses to status

This was added in 3451b89e5f, but
resulted in the v6 Tailscale address being added to status when
when the forwarding only happened on the v4 address.

Updates #502

Signed-off-by: Maisem Ali <maisem@tailscale.com>

cmd/k8s-operator/svc.go

@@ -8,6 +8,7 @@ package main
 import (
 	"context"
 	"fmt"
+	"net/netip"
 	"strings"
 
 	"go.uber.org/zap"
@@ -121,6 +122,11 @@ func (a *ServiceReconciler) maybeProvision(ctx context.Context, logger *zap.Suga
 		tags = strings.Split(tstr, ",")
 	}
 
+	clusterIPAddr, err := netip.ParseAddr(svc.Spec.ClusterIP)
+	if err != nil {
+		return fmt.Errorf("failed to parse cluster IP: %w", err)
+	}
+
 	sts := &tailscaleSTSConfig{
 		ParentResourceName:  svc.Name,
 		ParentResourceUID:   string(svc.UID),
@@ -158,7 +164,13 @@ func (a *ServiceReconciler) maybeProvision(ctx context.Context, logger *zap.Suga
 		{Hostname: tsHost},
 	}
 	for _, ip := range tsIPs {
-		ingress = append(ingress, corev1.LoadBalancerIngress{IP: ip})
+		addr, err := netip.ParseAddr(ip)
+		if err != nil {
+			continue
+		}
+		if addr.Is4() == clusterIPAddr.Is4() { // only add addresses of the same family
+			ingress = append(ingress, corev1.LoadBalancerIngress{IP: ip})
+		}
 	}
 	svc.Status.LoadBalancer.Ingress = ingress
 	if err := a.Status().Update(ctx, svc); err != nil {