diff --git a/client/local/local.go b/client/local/local.go
index 55d14f95e..a1dd88750 100644
--- a/client/local/local.go
+++ b/client/local/local.go
@@ -35,6 +35,7 @@ import (
 	"tailscale.com/ipn"
 	"tailscale.com/ipn/ipnstate"
 	"tailscale.com/net/netutil"
+	"tailscale.com/net/udprelay/status"
 	"tailscale.com/paths"
 	"tailscale.com/safesocket"
 	"tailscale.com/tailcfg"
@@ -1638,6 +1639,16 @@ func (lc *Client) DebugSetExpireIn(ctx context.Context, d time.Duration) error {
 	return err
 }
 
+// DebugPeerRelaySessions returns debug information about the current peer
+// relay sessions running through this node.
+func (lc *Client) DebugPeerRelaySessions(ctx context.Context) (*status.ServerStatus, error) {
+	body, err := lc.send(ctx, "GET", "/localapi/v0/debug-peer-relay-sessions", 200, nil)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, fmt.Errorf("error %w: %s", err, body)
+	}
+	return decodeJSON[*status.ServerStatus](body)
+}
+
 // StreamDebugCapture streams a pcap-formatted packet capture.
 //
 // The provided context does not determine the lifetime of the
diff --git a/cmd/derper/depaware.txt b/cmd/derper/depaware.txt
index 20b6bfb6e..df4499c2b 100644
--- a/cmd/derper/depaware.txt
+++ b/cmd/derper/depaware.txt
@@ -122,6 +122,7 @@ tailscale.com/cmd/derper dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/depawa
         tailscale.com/net/tlsdial/blockblame                         from tailscale.com/net/tlsdial
         tailscale.com/net/tsaddr                                     from tailscale.com/ipn+
      💣 tailscale.com/net/tshttpproxy                                from tailscale.com/derp/derphttp+
+        tailscale.com/net/udprelay/status                            from tailscale.com/client/local
         tailscale.com/net/wsconn                                     from tailscale.com/cmd/derper
         tailscale.com/paths                                          from tailscale.com/client/local
      💣 tailscale.com/safesocket                                     from tailscale.com/client/local
diff --git a/cmd/k8s-operator/depaware.txt b/cmd/k8s-operator/depaware.txt
index 2dbf49d07..e35fa3c27 100644
--- a/cmd/k8s-operator/depaware.txt
+++ b/cmd/k8s-operator/depaware.txt
@@ -877,6 +877,7 @@ tailscale.com/cmd/k8s-operator dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/
      💣 tailscale.com/net/tshttpproxy                                from tailscale.com/clientupdate/distsign+
         tailscale.com/net/tstun                                      from tailscale.com/tsd+
         tailscale.com/net/udprelay/endpoint                          from tailscale.com/wgengine/magicsock
+        tailscale.com/net/udprelay/status                            from tailscale.com/client/local
         tailscale.com/omit                                           from tailscale.com/ipn/conffile
         tailscale.com/paths                                          from tailscale.com/client/local+
      💣 tailscale.com/portlist                                       from tailscale.com/ipn/ipnlocal
diff --git a/cmd/tailscale/cli/debug-peer-relay.go b/cmd/tailscale/cli/debug-peer-relay.go
new file mode 100644
index 000000000..a4a9d0ddf
--- /dev/null
+++ b/cmd/tailscale/cli/debug-peer-relay.go
@@ -0,0 +1,85 @@
+// Copyright (c) Tailscale Inc & AUTHORS
+// SPDX-License-Identifier: BSD-3-Clause
+
+//go:build !ios && !ts_omit_relayserver
+
+package cli
+
+import (
+	"bytes"
+	"cmp"
+	"context"
+	"fmt"
+	"slices"
+
+	"github.com/peterbourgon/ff/v3/ffcli"
+	"tailscale.com/net/udprelay/status"
+)
+
+func init() {
+	debugPeerRelayCmd = mkDebugPeerRelaySessionsCmd
+}
+
+func mkDebugPeerRelaySessionsCmd() *ffcli.Command {
+	return &ffcli.Command{
+		Name:       "peer-relay-sessions",
+		ShortUsage: "tailscale debug peer-relay-sessions",
+		Exec:       runPeerRelaySessions,
+		ShortHelp:  "Print the current set of active peer relay sessions relayed through this node",
+	}
+}
+
+func runPeerRelaySessions(ctx context.Context, args []string) error {
+	srv, err := localClient.DebugPeerRelaySessions(ctx)
+	if err != nil {
+		return err
+	}
+
+	var buf bytes.Buffer
+	f := func(format string, a ...any) { fmt.Fprintf(&buf, format, a...) }
+
+	valid_state := false
+	f("Server status  : ")
+	switch srv.State {
+	case status.Disabled:
+		f("disabled (via node capability attribute 'disable-relay-server')")
+	case status.ShutDown:
+		f("shut down")
+	case status.NotConfigured:
+		f("not configured (you can configure the port with 'sudo tailscale set --relay-server-port=<PORT>')")
+	case status.Uninitialized:
+		valid_state = true
+		f("listening on port %v", srv.UDPPort)
+	case status.Running:
+		valid_state = true
+		f("running on port %v", srv.UDPPort)
+	default:
+		panic(fmt.Sprintf("unexpected status.ServerState: %#v", srv.State))
+	}
+
+	f("\n")
+	if !valid_state {
+		Stdout.Write(buf.Bytes())
+		return nil
+	}
+
+	f("Active sessions: %d\n", len(srv.Sessions))
+	if len(srv.Sessions) == 0 {
+		Stdout.Write(buf.Bytes())
+		return nil
+	}
+
+	slices.SortFunc(srv.Sessions, func(s1, s2 status.ServerSession) int { return cmp.Compare(s1.VNI, s2.VNI) })
+	f("\n%-8s %-41s %-55s %-55s\n", "VNI", "Server", "Client 1", "Client 2")
+	for _, s := range srv.Sessions {
+		f("%-8d %-41s %-55s %-55s\n",
+			s.VNI,
+			s.Server.String(),
+			s.Client1.String(),
+			s.Client2.String(),
+		)
+	}
+
+	Stdout.Write(buf.Bytes())
+	return nil
+}
diff --git a/cmd/tailscale/cli/debug.go b/cmd/tailscale/cli/debug.go
index fb062fd17..4fbde7e67 100644
--- a/cmd/tailscale/cli/debug.go
+++ b/cmd/tailscale/cli/debug.go
@@ -49,7 +49,8 @@ import (
 )
 
 var (
-	debugCaptureCmd func() *ffcli.Command // or nil
+	debugCaptureCmd   func() *ffcli.Command // or nil
+	debugPeerRelayCmd func() *ffcli.Command // or nil
 )
 
 func debugCmd() *ffcli.Command {
@@ -374,6 +375,7 @@ func debugCmd() *ffcli.Command {
 				ShortHelp:  "Print the current set of candidate peer relay servers",
 				Exec:       runPeerRelayServers,
 			},
+			ccall(debugPeerRelayCmd),
 		}...),
 	}
 }
diff --git a/cmd/tailscale/depaware.txt b/cmd/tailscale/depaware.txt
index 020479ebb..28605eefe 100644
--- a/cmd/tailscale/depaware.txt
+++ b/cmd/tailscale/depaware.txt
@@ -138,6 +138,7 @@ tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/dep
         tailscale.com/net/tlsdial/blockblame                         from tailscale.com/net/tlsdial
         tailscale.com/net/tsaddr                                     from tailscale.com/client/web+
      💣 tailscale.com/net/tshttpproxy                                from tailscale.com/clientupdate/distsign+
+        tailscale.com/net/udprelay/status                            from tailscale.com/client/local+
         tailscale.com/paths                                          from tailscale.com/client/local+
      💣 tailscale.com/safesocket                                     from tailscale.com/client/local+
         tailscale.com/syncs                                          from tailscale.com/cmd/tailscale/cli+
diff --git a/cmd/tailscaled/depaware.txt b/cmd/tailscaled/depaware.txt
index 7c4885a4b..b6d997fae 100644
--- a/cmd/tailscaled/depaware.txt
+++ b/cmd/tailscaled/depaware.txt
@@ -350,6 +350,7 @@ tailscale.com/cmd/tailscaled dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/de
         tailscale.com/net/tstun                                      from tailscale.com/cmd/tailscaled+
         tailscale.com/net/udprelay                                   from tailscale.com/feature/relayserver
         tailscale.com/net/udprelay/endpoint                          from tailscale.com/feature/relayserver+
+        tailscale.com/net/udprelay/status                            from tailscale.com/client/local+
         tailscale.com/omit                                           from tailscale.com/ipn/conffile
         tailscale.com/paths                                          from tailscale.com/client/local+
      💣 tailscale.com/portlist                                       from tailscale.com/ipn/ipnlocal
diff --git a/cmd/tsidp/depaware.txt b/cmd/tsidp/depaware.txt
index b28460352..b18745cba 100644
--- a/cmd/tsidp/depaware.txt
+++ b/cmd/tsidp/depaware.txt
@@ -307,6 +307,7 @@ tailscale.com/cmd/tsidp dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/depawar
      💣 tailscale.com/net/tshttpproxy                                from tailscale.com/clientupdate/distsign+
         tailscale.com/net/tstun                                      from tailscale.com/tsd+
         tailscale.com/net/udprelay/endpoint                          from tailscale.com/wgengine/magicsock
+        tailscale.com/net/udprelay/status                            from tailscale.com/client/local
         tailscale.com/omit                                           from tailscale.com/ipn/conffile
         tailscale.com/paths                                          from tailscale.com/client/local+
      💣 tailscale.com/portlist                                       from tailscale.com/ipn/ipnlocal
diff --git a/feature/relayserver/relayserver.go b/feature/relayserver/relayserver.go
index b90a62345..93481080e 100644
--- a/feature/relayserver/relayserver.go
+++ b/feature/relayserver/relayserver.go
@@ -6,14 +6,19 @@
 package relayserver
 
 import (
+	"encoding/json"
+	"fmt"
+	"net/http"
 	"sync"
 
 	"tailscale.com/disco"
 	"tailscale.com/feature"
 	"tailscale.com/ipn"
 	"tailscale.com/ipn/ipnext"
+	"tailscale.com/ipn/localapi"
 	"tailscale.com/net/udprelay"
 	"tailscale.com/net/udprelay/endpoint"
+	"tailscale.com/net/udprelay/status"
 	"tailscale.com/tailcfg"
 	"tailscale.com/types/key"
 	"tailscale.com/types/logger"
@@ -29,6 +34,37 @@ const featureName = "relayserver"
 func init() {
 	feature.Register(featureName)
 	ipnext.RegisterExtension(featureName, newExtension)
+	localapi.Register("debug-peer-relay-sessions", servePeerRelayDebugSessions)
+}
+
+// servePeerRelayDebugSessions is an HTTP handler for the Local API that
+// returns debug/status information for peer relay sessions being relayed by
+// this Tailscale node. It writes a JSON-encoded [status.ServerStatus] into the
+// HTTP response, or returns an HTTP 405/500 with error text as the body.
+func servePeerRelayDebugSessions(h *localapi.Handler, w http.ResponseWriter, r *http.Request) {
+	if r.Method != "GET" {
+		http.Error(w, "GET required", http.StatusMethodNotAllowed)
+		return
+	}
+
+	var e *extension
+	if ok := h.LocalBackend().FindMatchingExtension(&e); !ok {
+		http.Error(w, "peer relay server extension unavailable", http.StatusInternalServerError)
+		return
+	}
+
+	st, err := e.status()
+	if err != nil {
+		http.Error(w, fmt.Sprintf("failed to retrieve peer relay server status: %v", err), http.StatusInternalServerError)
+		return
+	}
+
+	j, err := json.Marshal(st)
+	if err != nil {
+		http.Error(w, fmt.Sprintf("failed to marshal json: %v", err), http.StatusInternalServerError)
+		return
+	}
+	w.Write(j)
 }
 
 // newExtension is an [ipnext.NewExtensionFn] that creates a new relay server
@@ -59,6 +95,27 @@ type extension struct {
 type relayServer interface {
 	AllocateEndpoint(discoA key.DiscoPublic, discoB key.DiscoPublic) (endpoint.ServerEndpoint, error)
 	Close() error
+	GetSessions() ([]status.ServerSession, error)
+}
+
+// PeerRelaySessionsReq is an empty event bus message type, used to send an
+// async request for peer relay status information to the peer relay server's
+// event loop. The server should respond with a [PeerRelaySessionsResp] via the
+// event bus.
+type PeerRelaySessionsReq struct{}
+
+// PeerRelaySessionsResp is an event bus message type containing peer relay
+// status information. Sent by the peer relay server in response to a
+// [PeerRelaySessionsReq] message.
+type PeerRelaySessionsResp struct {
+	// Status is the current status/config of the peer relay server and all of
+	// its peer relay sessions (if any). May be the zero value if Error is
+	// populated.
+	Status status.ServerStatus
+	// Error contains any error generated by the peer relay server while trying
+	// to gather status; it may or may not be populated regardless of whether
+	// the Status field is valid.
+	Error error
 }
 
 // Name implements [ipnext.Extension].
@@ -119,6 +176,8 @@ func (e *extension) consumeEventbusTopics(port int) {
 	defer close(e.busDoneCh)
 
 	eventClient := e.bus.Client("relayserver.extension")
+	debugReqSub := eventbus.Subscribe[PeerRelaySessionsReq](eventClient)
+	debugRespPub := eventbus.Publish[PeerRelaySessionsResp](eventClient)
 	reqSub := eventbus.Subscribe[magicsock.UDPRelayAllocReq](eventClient)
 	respPub := eventbus.Publish[magicsock.UDPRelayAllocResp](eventClient)
 	defer eventClient.Close()
@@ -137,6 +196,32 @@ func (e *extension) consumeEventbusTopics(port int) {
 			// If reqSub is done, the eventClient has been closed, which is a
 			// signal to return.
 			return
+		case <-debugReqSub.Events():
+			st := status.ServerStatus{
+				State:    status.Uninitialized,
+				UDPPort:  port,
+				Sessions: nil,
+			}
+			if rs == nil {
+				// Don't initialize the server simply for a debug request;
+				// return the status as-is.
+				resp := PeerRelaySessionsResp{st, nil}
+				debugRespPub.Publish(resp)
+				continue
+			}
+			// We know the server is [status.Running] because rs != nil, which
+			// can only be the case if the port is configured and peer relaying
+			// isn't disabled by node attribute.
+			st.State = status.Running
+			sessions, err := rs.GetSessions()
+			if err != nil {
+				prs_err := fmt.Errorf("error retrieving peer relay sessions: %v", err)
+				e.logf(prs_err.Error())
+				debugRespPub.Publish(PeerRelaySessionsResp{Error: prs_err})
+				continue
+			}
+			st.Sessions = sessions
+			debugRespPub.Publish(PeerRelaySessionsResp{st, nil})
 		case req := <-reqSub.Events():
 			if rs == nil {
 				var err error
@@ -188,3 +273,52 @@ func (e *extension) Shutdown() error {
 	e.shutdown = true
 	return nil
 }
+
+// status gathers and returns current peer relay server status information for
+// this Tailscale node, including if this node is disabled/not configured as a
+// peer relay server, and status of each peer relay session this node is
+// relaying (if any).
+func (e *extension) status() (status.ServerStatus, error) {
+	st := status.ServerStatus{
+		State:    status.Uninitialized,
+		UDPPort:  -1,
+		Sessions: nil,
+	}
+
+	e.mu.Lock()
+	running := e.busDoneCh != nil
+	shutdown := e.shutdown
+	port := e.port
+	disabled := e.hasNodeAttrDisableRelayServer
+	e.mu.Unlock()
+
+	if port == nil {
+		st.State = status.NotConfigured
+		return st, nil
+	}
+
+	st.UDPPort = *port
+	if disabled {
+		st.State = status.Disabled
+		return st, nil
+	}
+
+	if shutdown {
+		st.State = status.ShutDown
+		return st, nil
+	}
+
+	if !running {
+		// Leave state as Uninitialized.
+		return st, nil
+	}
+
+	client := e.bus.Client("relayserver.debug-peer-relay-sessions")
+	defer client.Close()
+	debugReqPub := eventbus.Publish[PeerRelaySessionsReq](client)
+	debugRespSub := eventbus.Subscribe[PeerRelaySessionsResp](client)
+
+	debugReqPub.Publish(PeerRelaySessionsReq{})
+	resp := <-debugRespSub.Events()
+	return resp.Status, resp.Error
+}
diff --git a/net/udprelay/server.go b/net/udprelay/server.go
index aece3bc59..2e43faae5 100644
--- a/net/udprelay/server.go
+++ b/net/udprelay/server.go
@@ -27,6 +27,7 @@ import (
 	"tailscale.com/net/packet"
 	"tailscale.com/net/stun"
 	"tailscale.com/net/udprelay/endpoint"
+	"tailscale.com/net/udprelay/status"
 	"tailscale.com/tstime"
 	"tailscale.com/types/key"
 	"tailscale.com/types/logger"
@@ -90,10 +91,15 @@ type serverEndpoint struct {
 	boundAddrPorts      [2]netip.AddrPort // or zero value if a handshake has never completed for that relay leg
 	lastSeen            [2]time.Time      // TODO(jwhited): consider using mono.Time
 	challenge           [2][disco.BindUDPRelayChallengeLen]byte
+	packetsRx           [2]uint64 // num packets received from/sent by each client after active state reached
+	bytesRx             [2]uint64 // num bytes received from/sent by each client after active state reached
 
 	lamportID   uint64
 	vni         uint32
 	allocatedAt time.Time
+
+	// status is the overall state of this server endpoint's peer relay session establishment/operation.
+	status status.SessionStatus
 }
 
 func (e *serverEndpoint) handleDiscoControlMsg(from netip.AddrPort, senderIndex int, discoMsg disco.Message, conn *net.UDPConn, serverDisco key.DiscoPublic) {
@@ -150,6 +156,7 @@ func (e *serverEndpoint) handleDiscoControlMsg(from netip.AddrPort, senderIndex
 		box := e.discoSharedSecrets[senderIndex].Seal(m.AppendMarshal(nil))
 		reply = append(reply, box...)
 		conn.WriteMsgUDPAddrPort(reply, nil, from)
+		e.status = status.Binding
 		return
 	case *disco.BindUDPRelayEndpointAnswer:
 		err := validateVNIAndRemoteKey(discoMsg.BindUDPRelayEndpointCommon)
@@ -167,6 +174,13 @@ func (e *serverEndpoint) handleDiscoControlMsg(from netip.AddrPort, senderIndex
 		}
 		// Handshake complete. Update the binding for this sender.
 		e.boundAddrPorts[senderIndex] = from
+
+		// If both clients have bound into the endpoint, we've moved from the
+		// Binding phase to the Pinging phase of peer relay session
+		// establishment.
+		if e.isBound() {
+			e.status = status.Pinging
+		}
 		e.lastSeen[senderIndex] = time.Now() // record last seen as bound time
 		return
 	default:
@@ -220,13 +234,24 @@ func (e *serverEndpoint) handlePacket(from netip.AddrPort, gh packet.GeneveHeade
 		case from == e.boundAddrPorts[0]:
 			e.lastSeen[0] = time.Now()
 			to = e.boundAddrPorts[1]
+			e.packetsRx[0]++
+			e.bytesRx[0] += uint64(len(b))
 		case from == e.boundAddrPorts[1]:
 			e.lastSeen[1] = time.Now()
 			to = e.boundAddrPorts[0]
+			e.packetsRx[1]++
+			e.bytesRx[1] += uint64(len(b))
 		default:
 			// unrecognized source
 			return
 		}
+
+		// If we reach here and packets are flowing bidirectionally, the
+		// Pinging phase of session establishment is complete and the session
+		// is active.
+		if e.status == status.Pinging && e.packetsRx[0] > 1 && e.packetsRx[1] > 1 {
+			e.status = status.Active
+		}
 		// Relay the packet towards the other party via the socket associated
 		// with the destination's address family. If source and destination
 		// address families are matching we tx on the same socket the packet
@@ -237,6 +262,7 @@ func (e *serverEndpoint) handlePacket(from netip.AddrPort, gh packet.GeneveHeade
 		} else if otherAFSocket != nil {
 			otherAFSocket.WriteMsgUDPAddrPort(b, nil, to)
 		}
+
 		return
 	}
 
@@ -644,6 +670,7 @@ func (s *Server) AllocateEndpoint(discoA, discoB key.DiscoPublic) (endpoint.Serv
 		discoPubKeys: pair,
 		lamportID:    s.lamportID,
 		allocatedAt:  time.Now(),
+		status:       status.Allocating,
 	}
 	e.discoSharedSecrets[0] = s.disco.Shared(e.discoPubKeys.Get()[0])
 	e.discoSharedSecrets[1] = s.disco.Shared(e.discoPubKeys.Get()[1])
@@ -663,3 +690,52 @@ func (s *Server) AllocateEndpoint(discoA, discoB key.DiscoPublic) (endpoint.Serv
 		SteadyStateLifetime: tstime.GoDuration{Duration: s.steadyStateLifetime},
 	}, nil
 }
+
+// extractClientInfo constructs a [status.ClientInfo] for one of the two peer
+// relay clients involved in this session.
+func extractClientInfo(idx int, ep *serverEndpoint) status.ClientInfo {
+	if idx != 0 && idx != 1 {
+		panic(fmt.Sprintf("idx passed to extractClientInfo() must be 0 or 1; got %d", idx))
+	}
+
+	// If neither the bound or handshake addrports are valid, just pass on the
+	// invalid zero value; users need to call ClientInfo.Endpoint.IsValid()
+	// before use.
+	var ap netip.AddrPort
+	if ep.boundAddrPorts[idx].IsValid() {
+		ap = ep.boundAddrPorts[idx]
+	} else if ep.handshakeAddrPorts[idx].IsValid() {
+		ap = ep.handshakeAddrPorts[idx]
+	}
+	return status.ClientInfo{
+		Endpoint:   ap,
+		ShortDisco: ep.discoPubKeys.Get()[idx].ShortString(),
+		PacketsTx:  ep.packetsRx[idx],
+		BytesTx:    ep.bytesRx[idx],
+	}
+}
+
+// GetSessions returns an array of peer relay session statuses, with each
+// entry containing detailed info about the server and clients involved in
+// each session. This information is intended for debugging/status UX, and
+// should not be relied on for any purpose outside of that.
+func (s *Server) GetSessions() ([]status.ServerSession, error) {
+	var sessions = make([]status.ServerSession, 0)
+	for _, se := range s.byDisco {
+		c1 := extractClientInfo(0, se)
+		c2 := extractClientInfo(1, se)
+		si := status.ServerInfo{
+			// TODO (dylan): Is this the correct addrPort to be using here?
+			Endpoint:   s.addrPorts[0],
+			ShortDisco: s.discoPublic.ShortString(),
+		}
+		sessions = append(sessions, status.ServerSession{
+			Status:  se.status,
+			VNI:     se.vni,
+			Client1: c1,
+			Client2: c2,
+			Server:  si,
+		})
+	}
+	return sessions, nil
+}
diff --git a/net/udprelay/status/status.go b/net/udprelay/status/status.go
new file mode 100644
index 000000000..ed6c0d3bb
--- /dev/null
+++ b/net/udprelay/status/status.go
@@ -0,0 +1,196 @@
+// Copyright (c) Tailscale Inc & AUTHORS
+// SPDX-License-Identifier: BSD-3-Clause
+
+// Package status contains types relating to the status of peer relay sessions
+// between peer relay client nodes via a peer relay server.
+package status
+
+import (
+	"fmt"
+	"net/netip"
+)
+
+// ServerState is the current state of the peer relay server extension.
+type ServerState int
+
+const (
+	// Uninitialized indicates the peer relay server hasn't been initialized
+	// yet on this node. It does NOT imply the peer relay server can be
+	// initialized for this node; the node may not be configured as a peer
+	// relay server yet, or may be disabled by node attribute.
+	Uninitialized ServerState = iota
+	// NotConfigured indicates the peer relay server port has not been set for
+	// this node; a node cannot be a peer relay server until the port has been
+	// set.
+	NotConfigured
+	// Disabled indicates the peer relay server has been disabled by a node
+	// attribute pushed via C2N.
+	Disabled
+	// Running indicates the peer relay server has been initialized and can
+	// relay sessions between peers on the configured UDP port.
+	Running
+	// ShutDown indicates the peer relay server extension has been told to
+	// shut down, and can no longer relay sessions between peers.
+	ShutDown
+)
+
+// ServerStatus contains the listening UDP port, state, and active sessions (if
+// any) for this node's peer relay server at a point in time.
+type ServerStatus struct {
+	// State is the current phase/state in the peer relay server's state
+	// machine. See [ServerState].
+	State ServerState
+	// UDPPort is the UDP port number that the peer relay server is listening
+	// for incoming peer relay endpoint allocation requests on, as configured
+	// by the user with 'tailscale set --relay-server-port=<PORT>'. If State is
+	// [NotConfigured], this field will be -1.
+	UDPPort int
+	// Sessions is an array of detailed status information about each peer
+	// relay session that this node's peer relay server is involved with. It
+	// may be empty.
+	Sessions []ServerSession
+}
+
+// ServerInfo contains status-related information about the peer relay server
+// involved in a single peer relay session.
+type ServerInfo struct {
+	// Endpoint is the [netip.AddrPort] for the peer relay server's underlay
+	// endpoint participating in the session. Both clients in a session are
+	// bound into the same endpoint on the server. This may be invalid; check
+	// the value with [netip.AddrPort.IsValid] before using.
+	Endpoint netip.AddrPort
+	// ShortDisco is a string representation of the peer relay server's disco
+	// public key. This can be the empty string.
+	ShortDisco string
+}
+
+// String returns a string representation of the [ServerInfo] containing the
+// endpoint address/port and short disco public key.
+func (i *ServerInfo) String() string {
+	disco := i.ShortDisco
+	if disco == "" {
+		disco = "[d:unknown]"
+	}
+
+	if i.Endpoint.IsValid() {
+		return fmt.Sprintf("%v[%s]", i.Endpoint, disco)
+	} else {
+		return fmt.Sprintf("unknown[%s]", disco)
+	}
+}
+
+// ClientInfo contains status-related information about a single peer relay
+// client involved in a single peer relay session.
+type ClientInfo struct {
+	// Endpoint is the [netip.AddrPort] of this peer relay client's underlay
+	// endpoint participating in the session. This may be invalid; check the
+	// value with [netip.AddrPort.IsValid] before using.
+	Endpoint netip.AddrPort
+	// ShortDisco is a string representation of this peer relay client's disco
+	// public key. This can be the empty string.
+	ShortDisco string
+	// PacketsTx is the number of packets this peer relay client has sent to
+	// the other client via the relay server after completing session
+	// establishment. This is identical to the number of packets that the peer
+	// relay server has received from this client.
+	PacketsTx uint64
+	// BytesTx is the total overlay bytes this peer relay client has sent to
+	// the other client via the relay server after completing session
+	// establishment. This is identical to the total overlay bytes that the
+	// peer relay server has received from this client.
+	BytesTx uint64
+}
+
+// String returns a string representation of the [ClientInfo] containing the
+// endpoint address/port, short disco public key, and packet/byte counts.
+func (i *ClientInfo) String() string {
+	disco := i.ShortDisco
+	if disco == "" {
+		disco = "[d:unknown]"
+	}
+
+	if i.Endpoint.IsValid() {
+		return fmt.Sprintf("%v[%s] tx %v(%vB)", i.Endpoint, i.ShortDisco, i.PacketsTx, i.BytesTx)
+	} else {
+		return fmt.Sprintf("unknown[%s] tx %v(%vB)", disco, i.PacketsTx, i.BytesTx)
+	}
+}
+
+// ServerSession contains status information for a single session between two
+// peer relay clients, which are relayed via one peer relay server. This is the
+// status as seen by the peer relay server; each client node may have a
+// different view of the session's current status based on connectivity and
+// where the client is in the peer relay endpoint setup (allocation, binding,
+// pinging, active).
+type ServerSession struct {
+	// Status is the current state of the session, as seen by the peer relay
+	// server. It contains the status of each phase of session setup and usage:
+	// endpoint allocation, endpoint binding, disco ping/pong, and active.
+	Status SessionStatus
+	// VNI is the Virtual Network Identifier for this peer relay session, which
+	// comes from the Geneve header and is unique to this session.
+	VNI uint32
+	// Server contains status information about the peer relay server involved
+	// in this session.
+	Server ServerInfo
+	// Client1 contains status information about one of the two peer relay
+	// clients involved in this session. Note that 'Client1' does NOT mean this
+	// was/wasn't the allocating client, or the first client to bind, etc; this
+	// is just one client of two.
+	Client1 ClientInfo
+	// Client2 contains status information about one of the two peer relay
+	// clients involved in this session. Note that 'Client2' does NOT mean this
+	// was/wasn't the allocating client, or the second client to bind, etc;
+	// this is just one client of two.
+	Client2 ClientInfo
+}
+
+// SessionStatus is the current state of a peer relay session, as seen by the
+// peer relay server that's relaying the session.
+type SessionStatus int
+
+const (
+	// NotStarted is the default "unknown" state for a session; it should not
+	// be seen outside of initialization.
+	NotStarted SessionStatus = iota
+	// Allocating indicates a peer relay client has contacted the peer relay
+	// server with a valid endpoint allocation request, and the server is in
+	// the process of allocating it. A session remains in this state until one
+	// of the two clients begins the Binding process.
+	Allocating
+	// Binding indicates at least one of the two peer relay clients has started
+	// the endpoint binding handshake with the peer relay server's endpoint for
+	// this session. A session remains in this state until both clients have
+	// completed the binding handshake and are bound into the endpoint.
+	Binding
+	// Pinging indicates the two peer relay clients should be sending disco
+	// ping/pong messages to one another to confirm peer relay session
+	// connectivity via the peer relay server endpoint. We don't actually
+	// monitor the disco ping/pong messages between the clients; we move into
+	// this state when Binding is complete, and move out of this state to
+	// [Active] when we see packets being exchanged bidirectionally over the
+	// session endpoint. As such, Pinging is currently an implicit intermediate
+	// state rather than a "confirmed by looking at disco ping/pong" state.
+	Pinging
+	// Active indicates the peer relay clients are both bound into the peer
+	// relay session, have completed their disco pinging process, and are
+	// bidirectionally exchanging packets via the peer relay server.
+	Active
+)
+
+// String returns a short, human-readable string representation of the current
+// [SessionStatus].
+func (s SessionStatus) String() string {
+	switch s {
+	case Allocating:
+		return "allocating endpoint"
+	case Binding:
+		return "binding endpoint"
+	case Pinging:
+		return "clients pinging"
+	case Active:
+		return "session active"
+	default:
+		return "unknown"
+	}
+}
diff --git a/tsnet/depaware.txt b/tsnet/depaware.txt
index da3175b8c..1729575ae 100644
--- a/tsnet/depaware.txt
+++ b/tsnet/depaware.txt
@@ -303,6 +303,7 @@ tailscale.com/tsnet dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/depaware)
      💣 tailscale.com/net/tshttpproxy                                from tailscale.com/clientupdate/distsign+
         tailscale.com/net/tstun                                      from tailscale.com/tsd+
         tailscale.com/net/udprelay/endpoint                          from tailscale.com/wgengine/magicsock
+        tailscale.com/net/udprelay/status                            from tailscale.com/client/local
         tailscale.com/omit                                           from tailscale.com/ipn/conffile
         tailscale.com/paths                                          from tailscale.com/client/local+
      💣 tailscale.com/portlist                                       from tailscale.com/ipn/ipnlocal