cmd/k8s-operator,k8s-operator,go.{mod,sum}: publish proxy status condition for annotated services (#12463)

Adds a new TailscaleProxyReady condition type for use in corev1.Service
conditions.

Also switch our CRDs to use metav1.Condition instead of
ConnectorCondition. The Go structs are seralized identically, but it
updates some descriptions and validation rules. Update k8s
controller-tools and controller-runtime deps to fix the documentation
generation for metav1.Condition so that it excludes comments and
TODOs.

Stop expecting the fake client to populate TypeMeta in tests. See
kubernetes-sigs/controller-runtime#2633 for details of the change.

Finally, make some minor improvements to validation for service hostnames.

Fixes #12216

Co-authored-by: Irbe Krumina <irbe@tailscale.com>
Signed-off-by: Tom Proctor <tomhjp@users.noreply.github.com>

go.mod

@@ -30,7 +30,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/dsnet/try v0.0.3
 	github.com/evanw/esbuild v0.19.11
 	github.com/frankban/quicktest v1.14.6
-	github.com/fxamacker/cbor/v2 v2.5.0
+	github.com/fxamacker/cbor/v2 v2.6.0
 	github.com/gaissmai/bart v0.4.1
 	github.com/go-json-experiment/json v0.0.0-20231102232822-2e55bd4e08b0
 	github.com/go-logr/zapr v1.3.0
@@ -94,29 +94,29 @@ require (
 	go.uber.org/zap v1.26.0
 	go4.org/mem v0.0.0-20220726221520-4f986261bf13
 	go4.org/netipx v0.0.0-20231129151722-fdeea329fbba
-	golang.org/x/crypto v0.21.0
+	golang.org/x/crypto v0.24.0
 	golang.org/x/exp v0.0.0-20240119083558-1b970713d09a
-	golang.org/x/mod v0.16.0
-	golang.org/x/net v0.23.0
+	golang.org/x/mod v0.18.0
+	golang.org/x/net v0.26.0
 	golang.org/x/oauth2 v0.16.0
-	golang.org/x/sync v0.6.0
-	golang.org/x/sys v0.19.0
-	golang.org/x/term v0.18.0
+	golang.org/x/sync v0.7.0
+	golang.org/x/sys v0.21.0
+	golang.org/x/term v0.21.0
 	golang.org/x/time v0.5.0
-	golang.org/x/tools v0.19.0
+	golang.org/x/tools v0.22.0
 	golang.zx2c4.com/wintun v0.0.0-20230126152724-0fa3db229ce2
 	golang.zx2c4.com/wireguard/windows v0.5.3
 	gopkg.in/square/go-jose.v2 v2.6.0
 	gvisor.dev/gvisor v0.0.0-20240306221502-ee1e1f6070e3
 	honnef.co/go/tools v0.4.6
-	k8s.io/api v0.29.1
-	k8s.io/apimachinery v0.29.1
-	k8s.io/apiserver v0.29.1
-	k8s.io/client-go v0.29.1
+	k8s.io/api v0.30.1
+	k8s.io/apimachinery v0.30.1
+	k8s.io/apiserver v0.30.1
+	k8s.io/client-go v0.30.1
 	modernc.org/sqlite v1.29.10
 	nhooyr.io/websocket v1.8.10
-	sigs.k8s.io/controller-runtime v0.16.2
-	sigs.k8s.io/controller-tools v0.13.0
+	sigs.k8s.io/controller-runtime v0.18.4
+	sigs.k8s.io/controller-tools v0.15.1-0.20240618033008-7824932b0cab
 	sigs.k8s.io/yaml v1.4.0
 	software.sslmate.com/src/go-pkcs12 v0.4.0
 )
@@ -208,8 +208,8 @@ require (
 	github.com/esimonov/ifshort v1.0.4 // indirect
 	github.com/ettle/strcase v0.1.1 // indirect
 	github.com/evanphx/json-patch v5.6.0+incompatible // indirect
-	github.com/evanphx/json-patch/v5 v5.8.1 // indirect
-	github.com/fatih/color v1.15.0 // indirect
+	github.com/evanphx/json-patch/v5 v5.9.0 // indirect
+	github.com/fatih/color v1.16.0 // indirect
 	github.com/fatih/structtag v1.2.0 // indirect
 	github.com/firefart/nonamedreturns v1.0.4 // indirect
 	github.com/fsnotify/fsnotify v1.7.0
@@ -233,7 +233,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/gobwas/glob v0.2.3 // indirect
 	github.com/gofrs/flock v0.8.1 // indirect
 	github.com/gogo/protobuf v1.3.2 // indirect
-	github.com/golang/protobuf v1.5.3 // indirect
+	github.com/golang/protobuf v1.5.4 // indirect
 	github.com/golangci/check v0.0.0-20180506172741-cfe4005ccda2 // indirect
 	github.com/golangci/dupl v0.0.0-20180902072040-3e9179ac440a // indirect
 	github.com/golangci/go-misc v0.0.0-20220329215616-d24fe342adfe // indirect
@@ -377,7 +377,7 @@ require (
 	go.uber.org/multierr v1.11.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/exp/typeparams v0.0.0-20240119083558-1b970713d09a // indirect
 	golang.org/x/image v0.15.0 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/text v0.14.0 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/text v0.16.0 // indirect
 	gomodules.xyz/jsonpatch/v2 v2.4.0 // indirect
 	google.golang.org/appengine v1.6.8 // indirect
 	google.golang.org/protobuf v1.33.0 // indirect
@@ -387,10 +387,9 @@ require (
 	gopkg.in/yaml.v2 v2.4.0 // indirect
 	gopkg.in/yaml.v3 v3.0.1
 	howett.net/plist v1.0.0 // indirect
-	k8s.io/apiextensions-apiserver v0.29.1 // indirect
-	k8s.io/component-base v0.29.1 // indirect
+	k8s.io/apiextensions-apiserver v0.30.1 // indirect
 	k8s.io/klog/v2 v2.120.1 // indirect
-	k8s.io/kube-openapi v0.0.0-20240117194847-208609032b15 // indirect
+	k8s.io/kube-openapi v0.0.0-20240228011516-70dd3763d340 // indirect
 	k8s.io/utils v0.0.0-20240102154912-e7106e64919e
 	mvdan.cc/gofumpt v0.5.0 // indirect
 	mvdan.cc/interfacer v0.0.0-20180901003855-c20040233aed // indirect