derp: make RunConnectionLoop funcs take Messages, support PeerPresentFlags

PeerPresentFlags was added in 5ffb2668ef but wasn't plumbed through to
the RunConnectionLoop. Rather than add yet another parameter (as
IP:port was added earlier), pass in the raw PeerPresentMessage and
PeerGoneMessage struct values, which are the same things, plus two
fields: PeerGoneReasonType for gone and the PeerPresentFlags from
5ffb2668ef.

Updates tailscale/corp#17816

Change-Id: Ib19d9f95353651ada90656071fc3656cf58b7987
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>

cmd/derper/mesh.go

@@ -9,14 +9,12 @@ import (
 	"fmt"
 	"log"
 	"net"
-	"net/netip"
 	"strings"
 	"time"
 
 	"tailscale.com/derp"
 	"tailscale.com/derp/derphttp"
 	"tailscale.com/net/netmon"
-	"tailscale.com/types/key"
 	"tailscale.com/types/logger"
 )
 
@@ -71,8 +69,8 @@ func startMeshWithHost(s *derp.Server, host string) error {
 		return d.DialContext(ctx, network, addr)
 	})
 
-	add := func(k key.NodePublic, _ netip.AddrPort) { s.AddPacketForwarder(k, c) }
-	remove := func(k key.NodePublic) { s.RemovePacketForwarder(k, c) }
+	add := func(m derp.PeerPresentMessage) { s.AddPacketForwarder(m.Key, c) }
+	remove := func(m derp.PeerGoneMessage) { s.RemovePacketForwarder(m.Peer, c) }
 	go c.RunWatchConnectionLoop(context.Background(), s.PublicKey(), logf, add, remove)
 	return nil
 }