all: move network monitoring from wgengine/monitor to net/netmon

We're using it in more and more places, and it's not really specific to
our use of Wireguard (and does more just link/interface monitoring).

Also removes the separate interface we had for it in sockstats -- it's
a small enough package (we already pull in all of its dependencies
via other paths) that it's not worth the extra complexity.

Updates #7621
Updates #7850

Signed-off-by: Mihai Parparita <mihai@tailscale.com>

net/netmon/netmon_polling.go

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+// Copyright (c) Tailscale Inc & AUTHORS
+// SPDX-License-Identifier: BSD-3-Clause
+
+//go:build (!linux && !freebsd && !windows && !darwin) || android
+
+package netmon
+
+import (
+	"tailscale.com/types/logger"
+)
+
+func newOSMon(logf logger.Logf, m *Monitor) (osMon, error) {
+	return newPollingMon(logf, m)
+}
+
+// unspecifiedMessage is a minimal message implementation that should not
+// be ignored. In general, OS-specific implementations should use better
+// types and avoid this if they can.
+type unspecifiedMessage struct{}
+
+func (unspecifiedMessage) ignore() bool { return false }