tsnet: split user facing and backend logging

This adds a new `UserLogf` field to the `Server` struct.
When set this any logs generated by Server are logged using
`UserLogf` and all spammy backend logs are logged to `Logf`.

If it `UserLogf` is unset, we default to `log.Printf` and
if `Logf` is unset we discard all the spammy logs.

Fixes #12094

Signed-off-by: Maisem Ali <maisem@tailscale.com>

cmd/pgproxy/pgproxy.go

@@ -28,7 +28,6 @@ import (
 	"tailscale.com/metrics"
 	"tailscale.com/tsnet"
 	"tailscale.com/tsweb"
-	"tailscale.com/types/logger"
 )
 
 var (
@@ -58,8 +57,6 @@ func main() {
 	ts := &tsnet.Server{
 		Dir:      *tailscaleDir,
 		Hostname: *hostname,
-		// Make the stdout logs a clean audit log of connections.
-		Logf: logger.Discard,
 	}
 
 	if os.Getenv("TS_AUTHKEY") == "" {