cmd/tailscaled/childproc: add be-child registration mechanism

For ssh and maybe windows service babysitter later.

Updates #3802

Change-Id: I7492b98df98971b3fb72d148ba92c2276cca491f
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>

cmd/tailscaled/childproc/childproc.go

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+// Copyright (c) 2022 Tailscale Inc & AUTHORS All rights reserved.
+// Use of this source code is governed by a BSD-style
+// license that can be found in the LICENSE file.
+
+// Package childproc allows other packages to register "tailscaled be-child"
+// child process hook code. This avoids duplicating build tags in the
+// tailscaled package. Instead, the code that needs to fork/exec the self
+// executable (when it's tailscaled) can instead register the code
+// they want to run.
+package childproc
+
+var Code = map[string]func([]string) error{}
+
+// Add registers code f to run as 'tailscaled be-child <typ> [args]'.
+func Add(typ string, f func(args []string) error) {
+	if _, dup := Code[typ]; dup {
+		panic("dup hook " + typ)
+	}
+	Code[typ] = f
+}