all: update exp/slices and fix call sites

slices.SortFunc suffered a late-in-cycle API breakage.

Updates #cleanup

Signed-off-by: David Anderson <danderson@tailscale.com>

util/cmpx/cmpx.go

@@ -20,3 +20,40 @@ func Or[T comparable](list ...T) T {
 	}
 	return zero
 }
+
+// Ordered is cmp.Ordered from Go 1.21.
+type Ordered interface {
+	~int | ~int8 | ~int16 | ~int32 | ~int64 |
+		~uint | ~uint8 | ~uint16 | ~uint32 | ~uint64 | ~uintptr |
+		~float32 | ~float64 |
+		~string
+}
+
+// Compare returns
+//
+//	-1 if x is less than y,
+//	 0 if x equals y,
+//	+1 if x is greater than y.
+//
+// For floating-point types, a NaN is considered less than any non-NaN,
+// a NaN is considered equal to a NaN, and -0.0 is equal to 0.0.
+func Compare[T Ordered](x, y T) int {
+	xNaN := isNaN(x)
+	yNaN := isNaN(y)
+	if xNaN && yNaN {
+		return 0
+	}
+	if xNaN || x < y {
+		return -1
+	}
+	if yNaN || x > y {
+		return +1
+	}
+	return 0
+}
+
+// isNaN reports whether x is a NaN without requiring the math package.
+// This will always return false if T is not floating-point.
+func isNaN[T Ordered](x T) bool {
+	return x != x
+}