ipn/ipnserver: enable systemd-notify support

Addresses #964

Still to be done:
- Figure out the correct logging lines in util/systemd
- Figure out if we need to slip the systemd.Status function anywhere
  else
- Log util/systemd errors? (most of the errors are of the "you cannot do
  anything about this, but it might be a bad idea to crash the program if
  it errors" kind)

Assistance in getting this over the finish line would help a lot.

Signed-off-by: Christine Dodrill <me@christine.website>

util/systemd: rename the nonlinux file to appease the magic

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util/systemd: fix package name

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util/systemd: fix review feedback from @mdlayher

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cmd/tailscale{,d}: update depaware manifests

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util/systemd: use sync.Once instead of func init

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control/controlclient: minor review feedback fixes

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{control,ipn,systemd}: fix review feedback

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review feedback fixes

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ipn: fix sprintf call

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ipn: make staticcheck less sad

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ipn: print IP address in connected status

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ipn: review feedback

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final fixups

Signed-off-by: Christine Dodrill <me@christine.website>

util/systemd/systemd_nonlinux.go

@@ -0,0 +1,10 @@
+// Copyright (c) 2020 Tailscale Inc & AUTHORS All rights reserved.
+// Use of this source code is governed by a BSD-style
+// license that can be found in the LICENSE file.
+
+// +build !linux
+
+package systemd
+
+func Ready()                        {}
+func Status(string, ...interface{}) {}