tstest/tailmac: add customized macOS virtualization tooling (#13146)

updates tailcale/corp#22371

Adds custom macOS vm tooling.  See the README for
the general gist, but this will spin up VMs with unixgram
capable network interfaces listening to a named socket,
and with a virtio socket device for host-guest communication.

We can add other devices like consoles, serial, etc as needed.

The whole things is buildable with a single make command, and
everything is controllable via the command line using the TailMac
utility.

This should all be generally functional but takes a few shortcuts
with error handling and the like.  The virtio socket device support
has not been tested and may require some refinement.

Signed-off-by: Jonathan Nobels <jonathan@tailscale.com>

tstest/tailmac/Swift/Common/Notifications.swift

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+// Copyright (c) Tailscale Inc & AUTHORS
+// SPDX-License-Identifier: BSD-3-Clause
+
+import Foundation
+
+struct Notifications {
+    // Stops the virtual machine and saves its state
+    static var stop = Notification.Name("io.tailscale.macvmhost.stop")
+
+    // Pauses the virtual machine and exits without saving its state
+    static var halt = Notification.Name("io.tailscale.macvmhost.halt")
+}