tstest/tailmac: add customized macOS virtualization tooling (#13146)

updates tailcale/corp#22371

Adds custom macOS vm tooling.  See the README for
the general gist, but this will spin up VMs with unixgram
capable network interfaces listening to a named socket,
and with a virtio socket device for host-guest communication.

We can add other devices like consoles, serial, etc as needed.

The whole things is buildable with a single make command, and
everything is controllable via the command line using the TailMac
utility.

This should all be generally functional but takes a few shortcuts
with error handling and the like.  The virtio socket device support
has not been tested and may require some refinement.

Signed-off-by: Jonathan Nobels <jonathan@tailscale.com>

tstest/tailmac/TailMac.xcodeproj/project.xcworkspace/xcshareddata/swiftpm/Package.resolved

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