control/controlhttp: move Dial options into options struct (#5661)

This turns 'dialParams' into something more like net.Dialer, where
configuration fields are public on the struct.

Split out of #5648

Change-Id: I0c56fd151dc5489c3c94fb40d18fd639e06473bc
Signed-off-by: Andrew Dunham <andrew@tailscale.com>

cmd/tailscale/cli/debug.go

@@ -489,7 +489,15 @@ func runTS2021(ctx context.Context, args []string) error {
 		return c, err
 	}
 
-	conn, err := controlhttp.Dial(ctx, ts2021Args.host, "80", "443", machinePrivate, keys.PublicKey, uint16(ts2021Args.version), dialFunc)
+	conn, err := (&controlhttp.Dialer{
+		Hostname:        ts2021Args.host,
+		HTTPPort:        "80",
+		HTTPSPort:       "443",
+		MachineKey:      machinePrivate,
+		ControlKey:      keys.PublicKey,
+		ProtocolVersion: uint16(ts2021Args.version),
+		Dialer:          dialFunc,
+	}).Dial(ctx)
 	log.Printf("controlhttp.Dial = %p, %v", conn, err)
 	if err != nil {
 		return err