cmd/k8s-operator,k8s-operator/sessionrecording,sessionrecording,ssh/tailssh: refactor session recording functionality (#12945)

cmd/k8s-operator,k8s-operator/sessionrecording,sessionrecording,ssh/tailssh: refactor session recording functionality

Refactor SSH session recording functionality (mostly the bits related to
Kubernetes API server proxy 'kubectl exec' session recording):

- move the session recording bits used by both Tailscale SSH
and the Kubernetes API server proxy into a shared sessionrecording package,
to avoid having the operator to import ssh/tailssh

- move the Kubernetes API server proxy session recording functionality
into a k8s-operator/sessionrecording package, add some abstractions
in preparation for adding support for a second streaming protocol (WebSockets)

Updates tailscale/corp#19821

Signed-off-by: Irbe Krumina <irbe@tailscale.com>

cmd/tailscaled/depaware.txt

@@ -330,6 +330,7 @@ tailscale.com/cmd/tailscaled dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/de
         tailscale.com/posture                                        from tailscale.com/ipn/ipnlocal
         tailscale.com/proxymap                                       from tailscale.com/tsd+
      💣 tailscale.com/safesocket                                     from tailscale.com/client/tailscale+
+  LD    tailscale.com/sessionrecording                               from tailscale.com/ssh/tailssh
   LD 💣 tailscale.com/ssh/tailssh                                    from tailscale.com/cmd/tailscaled
         tailscale.com/syncs                                          from tailscale.com/cmd/tailscaled+
         tailscale.com/tailcfg                                        from tailscale.com/client/tailscale+