net/{interfaces,netmon}, all: merge net/interfaces package into net/netmon

In prep for most of the package funcs in net/interfaces to become
methods in a long-lived netmon.Monitor that can cache things.  (Many
of the funcs are very heavy to call regularly, whereas the long-lived
netmon.Monitor can subscribe to things from the OS and remember
answers to questions it's asked regularly later)

Updates tailscale/corp#10910
Updates tailscale/corp#18960
Updates #7967
Updates #3299

Change-Id: Ie4e8dedb70136af2d611b990b865a822cd1797e5
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>

net/netmon/defaultroute_bsd.go

@@ -0,0 +1,26 @@
+// Copyright (c) Tailscale Inc & AUTHORS
+// SPDX-License-Identifier: BSD-3-Clause
+
+// Common code for FreeBSD and Darwin. This might also work on other
+// BSD systems (e.g. OpenBSD) but has not been tested.
+// Not used on iOS. See defaultroute_ios.go.
+
+//go:build !ios && (darwin || freebsd)
+
+package netmon
+
+import "net"
+
+func defaultRoute() (d DefaultRouteDetails, err error) {
+	idx, err := DefaultRouteInterfaceIndex()
+	if err != nil {
+		return d, err
+	}
+	iface, err := net.InterfaceByIndex(idx)
+	if err != nil {
+		return d, err
+	}
+	d.InterfaceName = iface.Name
+	d.InterfaceIndex = idx
+	return d, nil
+}