diff --git a/cmd/tailscale/cli/status.go b/cmd/tailscale/cli/status.go
index 54476f1b0..782c4d8ef 100644
--- a/cmd/tailscale/cli/status.go
+++ b/cmd/tailscale/cli/status.go
@@ -169,6 +169,9 @@ func runStatus(ctx context.Context, args []string) error {
 	}
 	for _, peer := range st.Peers() {
 		ps := st.Peer[peer]
+		if ps.ShareeNode {
+			continue
+		}
 		active := peerActive(ps)
 		if statusArgs.active && !active {
 			continue
diff --git a/ipn/ipnstate/ipnstate.go b/ipn/ipnstate/ipnstate.go
index 703dca26c..06559ce44 100644
--- a/ipn/ipnstate/ipnstate.go
+++ b/ipn/ipnstate/ipnstate.go
@@ -64,6 +64,12 @@ type PeerStatus struct {
 	LastHandshake time.Time // with local wireguard
 	KeepAlive     bool
 
+	// ShareeNode indicates this node exists in the netmap because
+	// it's owned by a shared-to user and that node might connect
+	// to us. These nodes should be hidden by "tailscale status"
+	// etc by default.
+	ShareeNode bool `json:",omitempty"`
+
 	// InNetworkMap means that this peer was seen in our latest network map.
 	// In theory, all of InNetworkMap and InMagicSock and InEngine should all be true.
 	InNetworkMap bool
@@ -218,6 +224,9 @@ func (sb *StatusBuilder) AddPeer(peer key.Public, st *PeerStatus) {
 	if st.KeepAlive {
 		e.KeepAlive = true
 	}
+	if st.ShareeNode {
+		e.ShareeNode = true
+	}
 }
 
 type StatusUpdater interface {
diff --git a/ipn/local.go b/ipn/local.go
index 1bc5b3e9d..a27384224 100644
--- a/ipn/local.go
+++ b/ipn/local.go
@@ -221,6 +221,7 @@ func (b *LocalBackend) UpdateStatus(sb *ipnstate.StatusBuilder) {
 				KeepAlive:    p.KeepAlive,
 				Created:      p.Created,
 				LastSeen:     lastSeen,
+				ShareeNode:   p.Hostinfo.ShareeNode,
 			})
 		}
 	}
diff --git a/tailcfg/tailcfg.go b/tailcfg/tailcfg.go
index d766a55b3..e4a16176b 100644
--- a/tailcfg/tailcfg.go
+++ b/tailcfg/tailcfg.go
@@ -287,6 +287,7 @@ type Hostinfo struct {
 	DeviceModel   string       `json:",omitempty"` // mobile phone model ("Pixel 3a", "iPhone 11 Pro")
 	Hostname      string       // name of the host the client runs on
 	ShieldsUp     bool         `json:",omitempty"` // indicates whether the host is blocking incoming connections
+	ShareeNode    bool         `json:",omitempty"` // indicates this node exists in netmap because it's owned by a shared-to user
 	GoArch        string       `json:",omitempty"` // the host's GOARCH value (of the running binary)
 	RoutableIPs   []wgcfg.CIDR `json:",omitempty"` // set of IP ranges this client can route
 	RequestTags   []string     `json:",omitempty"` // set of ACL tags this node wants to claim
diff --git a/tailcfg/tailcfg_clone.go b/tailcfg/tailcfg_clone.go
index 01473d0ed..d89607dd4 100644
--- a/tailcfg/tailcfg_clone.go
+++ b/tailcfg/tailcfg_clone.go
@@ -106,6 +106,7 @@ func (src *Hostinfo) Clone() *Hostinfo {
 	DeviceModel   string
 	Hostname      string
 	ShieldsUp     bool
+	ShareeNode    bool
 	GoArch        string
 	RoutableIPs   []wgcfg.CIDR
 	RequestTags   []string
diff --git a/tailcfg/tailcfg_test.go b/tailcfg/tailcfg_test.go
index 8a2e1e5ab..3f8cbcf69 100644
--- a/tailcfg/tailcfg_test.go
+++ b/tailcfg/tailcfg_test.go
@@ -23,9 +23,12 @@ func fieldsOf(t reflect.Type) (fields []string) {
 
 func TestHostinfoEqual(t *testing.T) {
 	hiHandles := []string{
-		"IPNVersion", "FrontendLogID", "BackendLogID", "OS", "OSVersion",
-		"DeviceModel", "Hostname", "ShieldsUp", "GoArch", "RoutableIPs",
-		"RequestTags", "Services", "NetInfo",
+		"IPNVersion", "FrontendLogID", "BackendLogID",
+		"OS", "OSVersion", "DeviceModel", "Hostname",
+		"ShieldsUp", "ShareeNode",
+		"GoArch",
+		"RoutableIPs", "RequestTags",
+		"Services", "NetInfo",
 	}
 	if have := fieldsOf(reflect.TypeOf(Hostinfo{})); !reflect.DeepEqual(have, hiHandles) {
 		t.Errorf("Hostinfo.Equal check might be out of sync\nfields: %q\nhandled: %q\n",
@@ -169,6 +172,11 @@ func TestHostinfoEqual(t *testing.T) {
 			&Hostinfo{Services: []Service{Service{Proto: TCP, Port: 1234, Description: "foo"}}},
 			true,
 		},
+		{
+			&Hostinfo{ShareeNode: true},
+			&Hostinfo{},
+			false,
+		},
 	}
 	for i, tt := range tests {
 		got := tt.a.Equal(tt.b)