cmd/tailscaled: change Windows service shutdown and add optional event logging

Once a stop request is received and the service updates its status to `svc.StopPending`,
it should continue running *until the shutdown sequence is complete*, and then
return out of `(*ipnService).Execute`, which automatically sends a `svc.Stopped`
notification to Windows.

To make this happen, I changed the loop so that it runs until `doneCh` is
closed, and then returns. I also removed a spurious `svc.StopPending` notification
that the Windows Service Control Manager might be interpreting as a request for
more time to shut down.

Finally, I added some optional logging that sends a record of service notifications
to the Windows event log, allowing us to more easily correlate with any Service
Control Manager errors that are sent to the same log.

Change-Id: I5b596122e5e89c4c655fe747a612a52cb4e8f1e0
Signed-off-by: Aaron Klotz <aaron@tailscale.com>

cmd/tailscaled/depaware.txt

@@ -323,6 +323,7 @@ tailscale.com/cmd/tailscaled dependencies: (generated by github.com/tailscale/de
    W    golang.org/x/sys/windows                                     from github.com/go-ole/go-ole+
    W    golang.org/x/sys/windows/registry                            from golang.zx2c4.com/wireguard/windows/tunnel/winipcfg+
    W    golang.org/x/sys/windows/svc                                 from golang.org/x/sys/windows/svc/mgr+
+   W    golang.org/x/sys/windows/svc/eventlog                        from tailscale.com/cmd/tailscaled
    W    golang.org/x/sys/windows/svc/mgr                             from tailscale.com/cmd/tailscaled
         golang.org/x/term                                            from tailscale.com/logpolicy
         golang.org/x/text/secure/bidirule                            from golang.org/x/net/idna