cmd/k8s-operator: configure proxies for HA Ingress to run in cert share mode (#15308)

cmd/k8s-operator: configure HA Ingress replicas to share certs

Creates TLS certs Secret and RBAC that allows HA Ingress replicas
to read/write to the Secret.
Configures HA Ingress replicas to run in read-only mode.

Updates tailscale/corp#24795


Signed-off-by: Irbe Krumina <irbe@tailscale.com>

cmd/k8s-operator/svc.go

@@ -84,10 +84,10 @@ func childResourceLabels(name, ns, typ string) map[string]string {
 	// proxying. Instead, we have to do our own filtering and tracking with
 	// labels.
 	return map[string]string{
-		LabelManaged:         "true",
-		LabelParentName:      name,
-		LabelParentNamespace: ns,
-		LabelParentType:      typ,
+		kubetypes.LabelManaged: "true",
+		LabelParentName:        name,
+		LabelParentNamespace:   ns,
+		LabelParentType:        typ,
 	}
 }