net/{netx,memnet},all: add netx.DialFunc, move memnet Network impl

This adds netx.DialFunc, unifying a type we have a bazillion other
places, giving it now a nice short name that's clickable in
editors, etc.

That highlighted that my earlier move (03b47a55c7) of stuff from
nettest into netx moved too much: it also dragged along the memnet
impl, meaning all users of netx.DialFunc who just wanted netx for the
type definition were instead also pulling in all of memnet.

So move the memnet implementation netx.Network into memnet, a package
we already had.

Then use netx.DialFunc in a bunch of places. I'm sure I missed some.
And plenty remain in other repos, to be updated later.

Updates tailscale/corp#27636

Change-Id: I7296cd4591218e8624e214f8c70dab05fb884e95
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>

k8s-operator/sessionrecording/hijacker.go

@@ -25,6 +25,7 @@ import (
 	"tailscale.com/k8s-operator/sessionrecording/spdy"
 	"tailscale.com/k8s-operator/sessionrecording/tsrecorder"
 	"tailscale.com/k8s-operator/sessionrecording/ws"
+	"tailscale.com/net/netx"
 	"tailscale.com/sessionrecording"
 	"tailscale.com/tailcfg"
 	"tailscale.com/tsnet"
@@ -102,7 +103,7 @@ type Hijacker struct {
 // connection succeeds. In case of success, returns a list with a single
 // successful recording attempt and an error channel. If the connection errors
 // after having been established, an error is sent down the channel.
-type RecorderDialFn func(context.Context, []netip.AddrPort, sessionrecording.DialFunc) (io.WriteCloser, []*tailcfg.SSHRecordingAttempt, <-chan error, error)
+type RecorderDialFn func(context.Context, []netip.AddrPort, netx.DialFunc) (io.WriteCloser, []*tailcfg.SSHRecordingAttempt, <-chan error, error)
 
 // Hijack hijacks a 'kubectl exec' session and configures for the session
 // contents to be sent to a recorder.