Basically, don't trust the OS-level link monitor to only tell you
interesting things. Sanity check it.
Also, move the interfaces package into the net directory now that we
have it.
I started to write a full DNS caching resolver and I realized it was
overkill and wouldn't work on Windows even in Go 1.14 yet, so I'm
doing this tiny one instead for now, just for all our netcheck STUN
derp lookups, and connections to DERP servers. (This will be caching a
exactly 8 DNS entries, all ours.)
Fixes#145 (can be better later, of course)
