Our current workaround made the user check too lax, thus allowing deleted
users. This patch adds a helper function to winutil that checks that the
uid's SID represents a valid Windows security principal.
Now if `lookupUserFromID` determines that the SID is invalid, we simply
propagate the error.
Updates https://github.com/tailscale/tailscale/issues/869
Signed-off-by: Aaron Klotz <aaron@tailscale.com>