Rather than consider bigs jumps in last-received-from activity as a
signal to possibly reconfigure the set of wireguard peers to have
configured, instead just track the set of peers that are currently
excluded from the configuration. Easier to reason about.
Also adds a bit more logging.
This might fix an error we saw on a machine running a recent unstable
build:
2020-08-26 17:54:11.528033751 +0000 UTC: 8.6M/92.6M magicsock: [unexpected] lazy endpoint not created for [UcppE], d:42a770f678357249
2020-08-26 17:54:13.691305296 +0000 UTC: 8.7M/92.6M magicsock: DERP packet received from idle peer [UcppE]; created=false
2020-08-26 17:54:13.691383687 +0000 UTC: 8.7M/92.6M magicsock: DERP packet from unknown key: [UcppE]
If it does happen again, though, we'll have more logs.
1) we weren't waking up a discoEndpoint that once existed and
went idle for 5 minutes and then got a disco message again.
2) userspaceEngine.noteReceiveActivity had a buggy check; fixed
and added a test
