Now a nodeAttr: ForceBackgroundSTUN, DERPRoute, TrimWGConfig,
DisableSubnetsIfPAC, DisableUPnP.
Kept support for, but also now a NodeAttr: RandomizeClientPort.
Removed: SetForceBackgroundSTUN, SetRandomizeClientPort (both never
used, sadly... never got around to them. But nodeAttrs are better
anyway), EnableSilentDisco (will be a nodeAttr later when that effort
resumes).
Updates #8923
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>