Previously, the operator would only monitor Services and create
a Tailscale StatefulSet which acted as a L3 proxy which proxied
traffic inbound to the Tailscale IP onto the services ClusterIP.
This extends that functionality to also monitor Ingress resources
where the `ingressClassName=tailscale` and similarly creates a
Tailscale StatefulSet, acting as a L7 proxy instead.
Users can override the desired hostname by setting:
```
- tls
hosts:
- "foo"
```
Hostnames specified under `rules` are ignored as we only create a single
host. This is emitted as an event for users to see.
Fixes#7895
Signed-off-by: Maisem Ali <maisem@tailscale.com>
