We weren't correctly retrying truncated requests to an upstream DNS
server with TCP. Instead, we'd return a truncated request to the user,
even if the user was querying us over TCP and thus able to handle a
large response.
Also, add an envknob and controlknob to allow users/us to disable this
behaviour if it turns out to be buggy (✨ DNS ✨).
Updates #9264
Signed-off-by: Andrew Dunham <andrew@du.nham.ca>
Change-Id: Ifb04b563839a9614c0ba03e9c564e8924c1a2bfd