This commit fixes a bug in our HA ingress reconciler where ingress resources would
be stuck in a deleting state should their associated VIP service be deleted within
control.
The reconciliation loop would check for the existence of the VIP service and if not
found perform no additional cleanup steps. The code has been modified to continue
onwards even if the VIP service is not found.
Fixes: https://github.com/tailscale/tailscale/issues/18049
Signed-off-by: David Bond <davidsbond93@gmail.com>