If we accept a forwarded TCP connection before dialing, we can
erroneously signal to a client that we support IPv6 (or IPv4) without
that actually being possible. Instead, we only complete the client's TCP
handshake after we've dialed the outbound connection; if that fails, we
respond with a RST.
Updates #5425 (maybe fixes!)
Signed-off-by: Andrew Dunham <andrew@tailscale.com>