If a node is flapping or otherwise generating lots of STUN endpoints, we
can end up caching a ton of useless values and sending them to peers.
Instead, let's apply a fixed per-Addr limit of endpoints that we cache,
so that we're only sending peers up to the N most recent.
Updates tailscale/corp#13890
Signed-off-by: Andrew Dunham <andrew@du.nham.ca>
Change-Id: I8079a05b44220c46da55016c0e5fc96dd2135ef8
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