Ensure that the ExternalName Service port names are always synced to the
ClusterIP Service, to fix a bug where if users created a Service with
a single unnamed port and later changed to 1+ named ports, the operator
attempted to apply an invalid multi-port Service with an unnamed port.
Also, fixes a small internal issue where not-yet Service status conditons
were lost on a spec update.
Updates tailscale/tailscale#10102
Signed-off-by: Irbe Krumina <irbe@tailscale.com>
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