fix(OTEL): reduce high cardinality in traces and metrics (#9286)

# Which Problems Are Solved

There were multiple issues in the OpenTelemetry (OTEL) implementation
and usage for tracing and metrics, which lead to high cardinality and
potential memory leaks:
- wrongly initiated tracing interceptors
- high cardinality in traces:
  - HTTP/1.1 endpoints containing host names
- HTTP/1.1 endpoints containing object IDs like userID (e.g.
`/management/v1/users/2352839823/`)
- high amount of traces from internal processes (spooler)
- high cardinality in metrics endpoint:
  - GRPC entries containing host names
  - notification metrics containing instanceIDs and error messages

# How the Problems Are Solved

- Properly initialize the interceptors once and update them to use the
grpc stats handler (unary interceptors were deprecated).
- Remove host names from HTTP/1.1 span names and use path as default.
- Set / overwrite the uri for spans on the grpc-gateway with the uri
pattern (`/management/v1/users/{user_id}`). This is used for spans in
traces and metric entries.
- Created a new sampler which will only sample spans in the following
cases:
  - remote was already sampled
- remote was not sampled, root span is of kind `Server` and based on
fraction set in the runtime configuration
- This will prevent having a lot of spans from the spooler back ground
jobs if they were not started by a client call querying an object (e.g.
UserByID).
- Filter out host names and alike from OTEL generated metrics (using a
`view`).
- Removed instance and error messages from notification metrics.

# Additional Changes

Fixed the middleware handling for serving Console. Telemetry and
instance selection are only used for the environment.json, but not on
statically served files.

# Additional Context

- closes #8096
- relates to #9074
- back ports to at least 2.66.x, 2.67.x and 2.68.x

(cherry picked from commit 990e1982c7)

internal/api/grpc/server/middleware/tracing.go

@@ -1,34 +1,29 @@
 package middleware
 
 import (
-	"context"
 	"strings"
 
 	grpc_trace "go.opentelemetry.io/contrib/instrumentation/google.golang.org/grpc/otelgrpc"
-	"google.golang.org/grpc"
+	"google.golang.org/grpc/stats"
 
 	grpc_utils "github.com/zitadel/zitadel/internal/api/grpc"
 )
 
 type GRPCMethod string
 
-func DefaultTracingServer() grpc.UnaryServerInterceptor {
+func DefaultTracingServer() stats.Handler {
 	return TracingServer(grpc_utils.Healthz, grpc_utils.Readiness, grpc_utils.Validation)
 }
 
-func TracingServer(ignoredMethods ...GRPCMethod) grpc.UnaryServerInterceptor {
-	return func(
-		ctx context.Context,
-		req interface{},
-		info *grpc.UnaryServerInfo,
-		handler grpc.UnaryHandler,
-	) (interface{}, error) {
-
-		for _, ignoredMethod := range ignoredMethods {
-			if strings.HasSuffix(info.FullMethod, string(ignoredMethod)) {
-				return handler(ctx, req)
+func TracingServer(ignoredMethods ...GRPCMethod) stats.Handler {
+	return grpc_trace.NewServerHandler(grpc_trace.WithFilter(
+		func(info *stats.RPCTagInfo) bool {
+			for _, ignoredMethod := range ignoredMethods {
+				if strings.HasSuffix(info.FullMethodName, string(ignoredMethod)) {
+					return false
+				}
 			}
-		}
-		return grpc_trace.UnaryServerInterceptor()(ctx, req, info, handler)
-	}
+			return true
+		},
+	))
 }