fix: smtp provider (#8610)

There were some problems after changing from SMTP providers to email
providers (https://github.com/zitadel/zitadel/pull/8545):
- panic (nil pointer) on SMTP provider retrieval for HTTP configs
- old SMTP configuration created before the multi SMTP configurations
(without id)
  - were not projected / listed
  - could not be always be activated
- Console treated HTTP configs as SMTP

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Co-authored-by: Livio Spring <livio.a@gmail.com>

internal/command/sms_config_model.go

@@ -93,6 +93,7 @@ func (wm *IAMSMSConfigWriteModel) Reduce() error {
 			}
 		case *instance.SMSConfigTwilioActivatedEvent:
 			if wm.ID != e.ID {
+				wm.State = domain.SMSConfigStateInactive
 				continue
 			}
 			wm.State = domain.SMSConfigStateActive
@@ -110,6 +111,7 @@ func (wm *IAMSMSConfigWriteModel) Reduce() error {
 			wm.State = domain.SMSConfigStateRemoved
 		case *instance.SMSConfigActivatedEvent:
 			if wm.ID != e.ID {
+				wm.State = domain.SMSConfigStateInactive
 				continue
 			}
 			wm.State = domain.SMSConfigStateActive