feat: add debug events API (#8533)

# Which Problems Are Solved

Add a debug API which allows pushing a set of events to be reduced in a
dedicated projection.
The events can carry a sleep duration which simulates a slow query
during projection handling.

# How the Problems Are Solved

- `CreateDebugEvents` allows pushing multiple events which simulate the
lifecycle of a resource. Each event has a `projectionSleep` field, which
issues a `pg_sleep()` statement query in the projection handler :
  - Add
  - Change
  - Remove
- `ListDebugEventsStates` list the current state of the projection,
optionally with a Trigger
- `GetDebugEventsStateByID` get the current state of the aggregate ID in
the projection, optionally with a Trigger


# Additional Changes

- none

# Additional Context

-  Allows reproduction of https://github.com/zitadel/zitadel/issues/8517

internal/query/debug_events_state_by_id.sql

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+select id, creation_date, change_date, resource_owner, sequence, blob
+from projections.debug_events
+where instance_id = $1
+and id = $2
+limit 1;