feat(database): support for postgres (#3998)

* beginning with postgres statements

* try pgx

* use pgx

* database

* init works for postgres

* arrays working

* init for cockroach

* init

* start tests

* tests

* TESTS

* ch

* ch

* chore: use go 1.18

* read stmts

* fix typo

* tests

* connection string

* add missing error handler

* cleanup

* start all apis

* go mod tidy

* old update

* switch back to minute

* on conflict

* replace string slice with `database.StringArray` in db models

* fix tests and start

* update go version in dockerfile

* setup go

* clean up

* remove notification migration

* update

* docs: add deploy guide for postgres

* fix: revert sonyflake

* use `database.StringArray` for daos

* use `database.StringArray` every where

* new tables

* index naming,
metadata primary key,
project grant role key type

* docs(postgres): change to beta

* chore: correct compose

* fix(defaults): add empty postgres config

* refactor: remove unused code

* docs: add postgres to self hosted

* fix broken link

* so?

* change title

* add mdx to link

* fix stmt

* update goreleaser in test-code

* docs: improve postgres example

* update more projections

* fix: add beta log for postgres

* revert index name change

* prerelease

* fix: add sequence to v1 "reduce paniced"

* log if nil

* add logging

* fix: log output

* fix(import): check if org exists and user

* refactor: imports

* fix(user): ignore malformed events

* refactor: method naming

* fix: test

* refactor: correct errors.Is call

* ci: don't build dev binaries on main

* fix(go releaser): update version to 1.11.0

* fix(user): projection should not break

* fix(user): handle error properly

* docs: correct config example

* Update .releaserc.js

* Update .releaserc.js

Co-authored-by: Livio Amstutz <livio.a@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Elio Bischof <eliobischof@gmail.com>

go.mod

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 module github.com/zitadel/zitadel
 
-go 1.17
+go 1.19
 
 require (
 	cloud.google.com/go/storage v1.14.0
@@ -29,6 +29,9 @@ require (
 	github.com/grpc-ecosystem/grpc-gateway v1.16.0
 	github.com/grpc-ecosystem/grpc-gateway/v2 v2.7.1
 	github.com/improbable-eng/grpc-web v0.15.0
+	github.com/jackc/pgconn v1.12.1
+	github.com/jackc/pgtype v1.11.0
+	github.com/jackc/pgx/v4 v4.16.1
 	github.com/jinzhu/gorm v1.9.16
 	github.com/k3a/html2text v1.0.8
 	github.com/kevinburke/twilio-go v0.0.0-20210327194925-1623146bcf73
@@ -66,7 +69,7 @@ require (
 	golang.org/x/oauth2 v0.0.0-20211104180415-d3ed0bb246c8
 	golang.org/x/sync v0.0.0-20210220032951-036812b2e83c
 	golang.org/x/text v0.3.7
-	golang.org/x/tools v0.1.8
+	golang.org/x/tools v0.1.11
 	google.golang.org/genproto v0.0.0-20211208223120-3a66f561d7aa
 	google.golang.org/grpc v1.43.0
 	google.golang.org/protobuf v1.27.1
@@ -115,7 +118,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/golang/groupcache v0.0.0-20210331224755-41bb18bfe9da // indirect
 	github.com/golang/snappy v0.0.4 // indirect
 	github.com/google/certificate-transparency-go v1.0.21 // indirect
-	github.com/google/go-cmp v0.5.6 // indirect
+	github.com/google/go-cmp v0.5.8 // indirect
 	github.com/google/uuid v1.3.0 // indirect
 	github.com/googleapis/gax-go/v2 v2.1.1 // indirect
 	github.com/gorilla/handlers v1.5.1 // indirect
@@ -125,6 +128,11 @@ require (
 	github.com/huandu/xstrings v1.3.2 // indirect
 	github.com/imdario/mergo v0.3.12 // indirect
 	github.com/inconshreveable/mousetrap v1.0.0 // indirect
+	github.com/jackc/chunkreader/v2 v2.0.1 // indirect
+	github.com/jackc/pgio v1.0.0 // indirect
+	github.com/jackc/pgpassfile v1.0.0 // indirect
+	github.com/jackc/pgproto3/v2 v2.3.0 // indirect
+	github.com/jackc/pgservicefile v0.0.0-20200714003250-2b9c44734f2b // indirect
 	github.com/jarcoal/jpath v0.0.0-20140328210829-f76b8b2dbf52
 	github.com/jinzhu/inflection v1.0.0 // indirect
 	github.com/json-iterator/go v1.1.12 // indirect
@@ -169,7 +177,7 @@ require (
 	go.opentelemetry.io/otel/internal/metric v0.25.0 // indirect
 	go.opentelemetry.io/proto/otlp v0.10.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/image v0.0.0-20200927104501-e162460cd6b5 // indirect
-	golang.org/x/mod v0.5.1 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/mod v0.6.0-dev.0.20220419223038-86c51ed26bb4 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/sys v0.0.0-20220715151400-c0bba94af5f8 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/xerrors v0.0.0-20200804184101-5ec99f83aff1 // indirect
 	google.golang.org/api v0.63.0