perf(actionsv2): execution target router (#10564)

# Which Problems Are Solved

The event execution system currently uses a projection handler that
subscribes to and processes all events for all instances. This creates a
high static cost because the system over-fetches event data, handling
many events that are not needed by most instances. This inefficiency is
also reflected in high "rows returned" metrics in the database.

# How the Problems Are Solved

Eliminate the use of a project handler. Instead, events for which
"execution targets" are defined, are directly pushed to the queue by the
eventstore. A Router is populated in the Instance object in the authz
middleware.

- By joining the execution targets to the instance, no additional
queries are needed anymore.
- As part of the instance object, execution targets are now cached as
well.
- Events are queued within the same transaction, giving transactional
guarantees on delivery.
- Uses the "insert many fast` variant of River. Multiple jobs are queued
in a single round-trip to the database.
- Fix compatibility with PostgreSQL 15

# Additional Changes

- The signing key was stored as plain-text in the river job payload in
the DB. This violated our [Secrets
Storage](https://zitadel.com/docs/concepts/architecture/secrets#secrets-storage)
principle. This change removed the field and only uses the encrypted
version of the signing key.
- Fixed the target ordering from descending to ascending.
- Some minor linter warnings on the use of `io.WriteString()`.

# Additional Context

- Introduced in https://github.com/zitadel/zitadel/pull/9249
- Closes https://github.com/zitadel/zitadel/issues/10553
- Closes https://github.com/zitadel/zitadel/issues/9832
- Closes https://github.com/zitadel/zitadel/issues/10372
- Closes https://github.com/zitadel/zitadel/issues/10492

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Co-authored-by: Stefan Benz <46600784+stebenz@users.noreply.github.com>

internal/api/grpc/server/middleware/instance_interceptor_test.go

@@ -12,6 +12,7 @@ import (
 
 	"github.com/zitadel/zitadel/internal/api/authz"
 	http_util "github.com/zitadel/zitadel/internal/api/http"
+	"github.com/zitadel/zitadel/internal/execution/target"
 	"github.com/zitadel/zitadel/internal/feature"
 	object_v3 "github.com/zitadel/zitadel/pkg/grpc/object/v3alpha"
 )
@@ -295,3 +296,7 @@ func (m *mockInstance) EnableImpersonation() bool {
 func (m *mockInstance) Features() feature.Features {
 	return feature.Features{}
 }
+
+func (m *mockInstance) ExecutionRouter() target.Router {
+	return target.NewRouter(nil)
+}