feat(/internal): Add User Resource Owner (#9168)

Update the  ../proto/zitadel/member.proto to
include the UserResourceOwner as part of member.

Update the queries to include UserResourceOwner
for the following :
zitadel/internal/query/iam_member.go
zitadel/internal/query/org_member.go
zitadel/internal/query/project_member.go
zitadel/internal/query/project_grant_member.go

Non Breaking Changes

# Which Problems Are Solved

https://github.com/zitadel/zitadel/issues/5062

# How the Problems Are Solved

- Updated the member.proto file to include user_resource_owner. I have
compiled using` make compile` command .
- Changed the queries to include the userResourceOwner as part of
Member.
- Then, updated the converter to map the userResourceOwner.

# Additional Changes

Replace this example text with a concise list of additional changes that
this PR introduces, that are not directly solving the initial problem
but are related.
For example:
- The docs explicitly describe that the property XY is mandatory
- Adds missing translations for validations.

# Additional Context


- Closes #5062 
-
https://discordapp.com/channels/927474939156643850/1326245856193544232/1326476710752948316

internal/query/project_member.go

@@ -44,6 +44,10 @@ var (
 		name:  projection.MemberResourceOwner,
 		table: projectMemberTable,
 	}
+	ProjectMemberUserResourceOwner = Column{
+		name:  projection.MemberUserResourceOwner,
+		table: projectMemberTable,
+	}
 	ProjectMemberInstanceID = Column{
 		name:  projection.MemberInstanceID,
 		table: projectMemberTable,
@@ -99,6 +103,7 @@ func prepareProjectMembersQuery(ctx context.Context, db prepareDatabase) (sq.Sel
 			ProjectMemberChangeDate.identifier(),
 			ProjectMemberSequence.identifier(),
 			ProjectMemberResourceOwner.identifier(),
+			ProjectMemberUserResourceOwner.identifier(),
 			ProjectMemberUserID.identifier(),
 			ProjectMemberRoles.identifier(),
 			LoginNameNameCol.identifier(),
@@ -141,6 +146,7 @@ func prepareProjectMembersQuery(ctx context.Context, db prepareDatabase) (sq.Sel
 					&member.ChangeDate,
 					&member.Sequence,
 					&member.ResourceOwner,
+					&member.UserResourceOwner,
 					&member.UserID,
 					&member.Roles,
 					&preferredLoginName,