feat: Make service name configurable for Metrics and Tracing (#9563)

# Which Problems Are Solved

The service name is hardcoded in the metrics code. Making the service
name to be configurable helps when running multiple instances of
Zitadel.

The defaults remain unchanged, the service name will be defaulted to
ZITADEL.

# How the Problems Are Solved

Add a config option to override the name in defaults.yaml and pass it
down to the corresponding metrics or tracing module (google or otel)

# Additional Changes
NA

# Additional Context
NA

internal/telemetry/metrics/otel/open_telemetry.go

@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ type Metrics struct {
 }
 
 func NewMetrics(meterName string) (metrics.Metrics, error) {
-	resource, err := otel_resource.ResourceWithService()
+	resource, err := otel_resource.ResourceWithService("ZITADEL")
 	if err != nil {
 		return nil, err
 	}