chore: fix login integration (#10318)

# Which Problems Are Solved

Login integration tests are not executed in the pipeline

# How the Problems Are Solved

The login integration tests are fixed and added as a pipeline workflow.
It  tests against the built login docker image.
On pipeline failures, developers are guided on how to fix them using a
dev container configured for this purpose.

# Additional Changes

- email domains are replaced by example.com. In case the tests were
accidentally run against a cloud instance, it wouldn't cause bounces.
- pnpm is upgraded, because the --filter argument doesn't work for the
install command on the old version.
- The login Dockerfile is optimized for docker image builds

# Additional Changes From Review for
https://github.com/zitadel/zitadel/pull/10305

These changes were requested from @peintnermax 

- The base dev container starts without any services besides the
database and the dev container itself
- CONTRIBUTING.md is restructured
- To reproduce pipeline checks, only the devcontainer CLI and Docker are
needed. This is described in the CONTRIBUTING.md
- The convenience npm script "generate" is added

# Additional Context

- Follow-up for PR https://github.com/zitadel/zitadel/pull/10305
- Base for https://github.com/zitadel/zitadel/issues/10277

packages/zitadel-client/package.json

@@ -1,4 +1,5 @@
 {
+  "packageManager": "pnpm@10.13.1",
   "name": "@zitadel/client",
   "version": "1.3.1",
   "license": "MIT",
@@ -92,4 +93,4 @@
     "typescript": "^5.8.3",
     "vitest": "^2.0.0"
   }
-}
+}

packages/zitadel-proto/package.json

@@ -1,4 +1,5 @@
 {
+  "packageManager": "pnpm@10.13.1",
   "name": "@zitadel/proto",
   "version": "1.3.1",
   "license": "MIT",
@@ -77,7 +78,7 @@
   },
   "sideEffects": false,
   "scripts": {
-    "generate": "pnpm exec buf generate ../../proto",
+    "generate": "buf generate ../../proto",
     "clean": "rm -rf zitadel .turbo node_modules google protoc-gen-openapiv2 validate cjs types es"
   },
   "dependencies": {
@@ -87,4 +88,4 @@
     "@bufbuild/buf": "^1.55.1",
     "glob": "^11.0.0"
   }
-}
+}