fix(init): prepare database (#3191)

* fix(init): prepare database

* fix(defaults): cockroach local defaults

cmd/defaults.yaml

@@ -1,4 +1,20 @@
 Log:
   Level: debug
   Formatter:
-    Format: text
+    Format: text
+
+database:
+  host: localhost
+  port: 26257
+  user: zitadel
+  database: zitadel
+  password: 
+  maxOpenConns: 3
+  ssl:
+    mode: disable
+    rootCert: 
+    cert:
+    key:
+  options: 
+  # MaxConnLifetime: 30m
+  # MaxConnIdleTime: 30m