In very low-latency conditions, a STUN request can complete before
the startup loop has finished firing off goroutines, leading to
a concurrent map mutation.
It used to make assumptions based on having Anycast IPs that are super
near. Now we're intentionally going to a bunch of different distant
IPs to measure latency.
Also, optimize how the hairpin detection works. No need to STUN on
that socket. Just use that separate socket for sending, once we know
the other UDP4 socket's endpoint. The trick is: make our test probe
also a STUN packet, so it fits through magicsock's existing STUN
routing.
This drops netcheck from ~5 seconds to ~250-500ms.
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
I started to write a full DNS caching resolver and I realized it was
overkill and wouldn't work on Windows even in Go 1.14 yet, so I'm
doing this tiny one instead for now, just for all our netcheck STUN
derp lookups, and connections to DERP servers. (This will be caching a
exactly 8 DNS entries, all ours.)
Fixes#145 (can be better later, of course)
