Previously, we had to do blind timed requeues while waiting for
the tailscale hostname, because we looked up the hostname through
the API. But now the proxy container image writes back its hostname
to the k8s secret, so we get an event-triggered reconcile automatically
when the time is right.
Updates #502
Signed-off-by: David Anderson <danderson@tailscale.com>
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