cmd/k8s-operator: add logic to parse L7 Ingresses in HA mode
- Wrap the Tailscale API client used by the Kubernetes Operator
into a client that knows how to manage VIPServices.
- Create/Delete VIPServices and update serve config for L7 Ingresses
for ProxyGroup.
- Ensure that ingress ProxyGroup proxies mount serve config from a shared ConfigMap.
Updates tailscale/corp#24795
Signed-off-by: Irbe Krumina <irbe@tailscale.com>